樂高小姐今天要探討一個二十幾歲台灣男孩的約會現象！（出來吃東西，喝咖啡，看電影）

樂高小姐身邊的樂高姐妹們常常有下列狀況發生：

狀況一：男孩約女孩出去晚餐約會，女孩在路上的時候，男孩電話來了，男孩：我媽咪跟我們一起吃飯ＯＫ嗎？（...高EQ女孩該說什麼？）

狀況二：男孩約女孩早上出去喝杯咖啡聊個天，女孩還是先問過男孩需不需要陪媽媽，男孩：早上不用！（女孩隨性的出門了，男孩遲到並且和精心打扮過的男孩媽媽一同出現）（是女孩耳朵壞掉還是男孩頭腦壞掉）

狀況三：男孩約女孩晚上看個電影，女孩已經在路上了，男孩打來：我剛跟我媽吃完飯，約我媽一起看你覺得勒？ （女孩覺得好不好勒？）

--其實樂高小姐真的不是要冒犯各位媽媽們，但是基本上男孩女孩兩個人的約會，女孩出門的心理準備“就是只打算跟男孩兩個人相處”！！女孩們搞不懂的是 “到底是男孩們愛拖著媽媽加入？男孩們愛享受不先和女孩講好的樂趣？還是媽媽們愛隨堂測驗男孩女孩的反應？”--

樂高小姐：套一句樂高弟弟的話“到底是腦袋長霉，還是沒長腦袋！！（有點太誇張了）

重點是：如果事先可以說好，那一切都沒有問題，有事好商量！女孩們真的沒有那麼喜歡，也沒以那麼享受驚喜（驚真的多過喜）。

Is there something wrong with the Taiwanese guys lately, especially those who are in their twenties?!

A lot of LegoLady's girlfriends experienced the "Ambushed" before!

What does that mean? A girl felt "ambushed" when the "MOMs" came along to the casual dates that were suppose to be "YOU + ME" dates: casual dinners, coffees, movies,..etc.

How is that so difficult to comprehend?! 

Ex1: Boy asked Lady out for a casual dinner, and while Lady was already on the way, Boy asked if it's okay for Boy's Mom to join?! YES? NO? 

Ex2: Boy asked Lady out for morning coffee, to ensure that Boy's Mom won't be joined, Lady asked Boy if Boy needed to hang out with Mom, Boy: Not in the morning!! (Surprised!! Boy showed up with Boy's Mom for Coffee)

Ex3: Boy asked Lady to go for a movie, while Lady was on her way to the theater, Boy asked if Boy's Mom can be the third wheel? (Who does that?)

WHAT'S WRONG WITH ALL THE MOMS OUT THERE JOINING DATES WITH YOUR SONS????? (IS THERE NOTHING ELSE BETTER FOR YOU WOMEN TO DO?) (IT'S HIGHLY POSSIBLE THAT SONS ARE THE ONE TO BLAME!!!)

LegoLady: Things are much better when they go as planned (:

Love,

LegoLady